Tying the Knot

Binding Two Lives Together - Tying the Knot

        The phrase, “tying the knot”, has come to mean “getting married”.  The origin of this little saying was indeed a tying of a knot around the hands of a couple signifying the two joining together as one.  In boating, fishing, farming or many other forms of everyday life, two ropes or cords are made into one by tying a strong knot.  After the knot is formed, when the ends of the rope are pulled, the knot becomes tighter and tighter.  The two pieces of rope now forever useful as one long, strong rope.

Historically, this illustration, familiar to all rural societies became a part of the Latin wedding ceremonies.  After the vows, the priest would remove his stole (the long satin scarf draped around his neck).  The couple would join hands, and then the priest would drape the scarf over their hands in a loose knot.  Finalizing the marriage while the stole was still on their hands, the priest would then bless the union and solemnly announce them as man and wife.  This was so integrally a part of the wedding service, that the term “tying the knot” was generally understood as being married. 

Though this custom is no longer common, it might be a delightful addition to a traditional ceremony.  Just be sure to educate the priest, minister or wedding officiant as to the history and your desire to incorporate it into your ceremony.

"May your knot be strong and your rope long"